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I recently read an article about how women use the word “just” in work life and personal life more than men do because we feel we need to apologize or make whatever we have to say quick. “I’m just writing to say…” “I just want to know…” “Just checking in…”. It seems to trivialize what we have to say.
Don’t apologize or feel you need to make little of what you are saying. Say it with intention. “I’m writing to tell you this…” “I want you to know…” “I’m checking in to make sure…"
Since reading the article I’ve become aware of how much I was adding “just” so soften what I had to say, whether it needed to be softened or not. Say what you have to say with confidence and intent. without apology. what you have to say, no matter what it is, is important.
I posted this I think 6 or 7 years ago, and I can’t believe all of the amazing messages and feedback I’ve gotten on this post!! So much positivity has come out of this!!
I by no means am trying to police anyone’s language by this post. The article helped people like me who typically are apologetic for taking up anyone’s time or bothering them, and it made me aware that what I have to say is important and I don’t have to belittle it or apologize for it. If you want to continue using “just” in your vocabulary, go for it!! Do you, my friend!!
Anyway, I’m still a work in progress when it comes to eliminating “just” but it’s definitely made me more aware of my words and helped me realize that I should speak with courage and strength.
Peace and love
